Thursday, May 24, 2007

Ventura Relay- The BIG Event

Well, the event that I have been putting so much time and effort into has passed! It went amazingly well and I was so proud to be apart of the event. For months I have been preparing and I must admit, it has been quite a responsibility. As Youth Advocate Director, I have been attending committee meetings for the past three months and I was assigned to create all 30 posters- quite a task! Since it was a Hollywood theme, I was titled the "Set Designer".
It has been such a privilege to get my peers involved with the Relay for Life in Ventura. I had 33 students on my team who each raised a minimum of $100. I was so proud of the teamwork, time, and effort that everyone put into the event. There was no better feeling than to be a leader for so many amazing people and to show them the magic that Relay for Life possesses. Each one attended weekly meetings for the past three months and each made a contribution in his or her own way. Whether it was to help me make posters or to work at the actual relay- I am proud to have 33 new members who are eager to partake in the relay again.
On Friday afternoon I set up all eight of our tents, which was, let's just say- interesting. After doing so, I got ready for the big day ahead!
Early on Saturday morning my team greeted me and we decorated our "Little Mermaid" theme booth. We had all kinds of fish and beautiful decorations, but my favorite part was the hanging bubbles we had. Each one had a name and described whether they were a cancer survivor or if it was in their memory. We had over 40 names, my mom being one of them. It was the perfect touch to our booth. We also had a bubble machine which everyone at the Relay seemed to enjoy- especially the little kids. Not to mention, we had special shirts designed so that our team would be easily recognizable to anyone at the relay.
The opening ceremony was especially nice; there is always a story shared from a cancer survivor. However, there was something new this year that was extremely touching. On the stage were four children, two of them in kindergarten, that all had cancer. It was so hard to watch, but when I heard each of them say, "stay strong", and it was truly touching. After the opening ceremony, it was time for the survivor's lap- which my mom always walks in. However, she wanted me to walk with her since she said I was her caregiver and we held hands during the lap. I was extremely touched by this. Our bond is growing stronger everyday.
During the day we had a great time walking laps- I walked 7.5 miles total. There was live music and everyone there had a wonderful spirit to relay. A highlight was when my mom and dad flew over in the helicopter to take pictures of the relay and our team from the air! Very cool and my team loved this! At 3:00, I was in charge of putting on a "relay pageant". This was a blast! I began by telling everyone of my personal story and how relay has changed my life. I always encourage people to appreciate the life that they have and also to realize that there is hope in any situation. After sharing this, I was excited to see that I had over 20 participants. The first part of the competition was to model their relay fun fashion- they seemed to really enjoy this part! Next was the talent competition, which was hula hooping. Lastly, the contestants came up on stage for an on-stage question. Each answer was very heartfelt and I felt lucky to be surrounded by so many great people. I asked them questions such as, "So why do you relay?", "What's your favorite part of the relay?", and "What advice would you give to people with cancer?". After this, it was time to crown the winner; the judging was based on applause. I gave out many bouquets for the runners-ups the winner received a crown. The winner was very excited and she wore it for the rest of the day.
Later at night was the Luminaria Ceremony. It was touching to hear my mom, aunt, and grandma's names called out. As the bagpiper played, we all walked around the track in remembrance and honor for all those who have had cancer. I always love walking around the track to see all the lit up luminaria bags- each one is a name and a life.
It was a late night- I stayed up till about three in the morning walking. It was exhausting and I still feel really tired. But it is worth the cause and so far this has been the defining experience for my relay participation. I had the opportunity to grow as a leader and to be apart of a program unlike any other to an even greater extent.
That morning at the closing ceremony I was thrilled to find out that our team was 5th place out of 50 teams raising $8,835. Also, I was the highest individual fundraiser, raising over $4,000 on my own. Total, the relay raised over $180,000. What an accomplishment! I feel so blessed to be apart of all of this! It is truly life changing.
Furthermore, I feel blessed to have my title as Miss Teen California International 2007, because it has given me an opportunity to make a greater impact that would have been more difficult otherwise. I have been able to raise an increased awareness and my favorite part is that I have gotten the teens in my community involved in Relay for Life. I feel like I have helped them appreciate community service along with helping to insipre them with a passion for helping others. I feel that my title should not be about how it affects me-but instead how it affects others. As I go on in my year of service I know that I will continue my relay participation, and also long after I have passed on the title. I have been blessed by my platform and I plan on continuing my time and efforts to an organization that is truly inspirational.

Ventura Relay
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Membership Tea

This past weekend my mom was signed in as president of National Charity League! I was so extremely proud of her and I was so impressed with her speech. She has been working so hard and has even joined Toastmasters so that she can perfect her speaking skills- and she certainly has! Her theme this year will be "the wind beneath your wings" and I think it will be very lovely. Also, I had the opportunity to give the inspiration to a group of over 200 women- so that was certainly exciting! It was a beautiful tea (the sandwiches, tea, cookies, and chocolate dipped strawberries were incredible!) and everyone had a wonderful time!

Membership Tea
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Wednesday, May 23, 2007

Driver's License!!!!!


Guess what?!?!?! I got my driver's license!! I was so nervous for the test and I have to admit it felt really awkward but I made it! I was so thrilled! Also, the best part was when I came home I had a Toyota Corolla! It's beautiful and I couldn't be more thrilled!

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Happy Mother's Day

Today for Mother's Day my mom, dad, two grandmas, and I went to the Saticoy Country Club for a delightful brunch. The food was delicious- especially the crepes! Also they had a fondue fountain- my grandma and I had fun there!! It was a wonderful day with my family and I appreciate them all so much. They are a wonderful support and I am glad that I can give back that support to my family. I know my mom had a fabulous day and that is all that matters. Thanks to the pageant, my mom and I have gotten to spend a bunch of time together and it has strengthened our bond- I'm so grateful for that!

Mother's Day
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Food Share

Yesterday my mom and I, along with some other National Charity League members, volunteered at the post office to sort cans for Food Share. We were there for three hours and we worked the whole time- which is great! I was so impressed by how much our Ventura community gives and I'm sure the recipients will be quite excited when they receive all of the food. We sorted just about everything- from spam cans to finding a piece garlic- everything was there! My mom and I had fun together and I really enjoyed volunteering at this philanthropy.

Food Share
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El Segundo Relay

Yesterday my mom and I attended the El Segundo relay- which was by far the biggest adventure yet of my year holding this title. It started out fine- I was driving (I have my permit) and my mom was giving me directions. Well, for a second she couldn't find the directions so she told me to take the nearest exit until she found them. It turns out that I took the exit into the LAX airport!! Quite the hassle. Well, we then got back on the freeway but it turns out there are two Imperial road exits and-lucky us- we took the wrong one. After driving around for over an hour and a half we asked a police officer where to go. She had no clue- but she did inform us that we needed to lock all doors and that we were in a very "dangerous" neighbor. Well, this definitely freaked me out! I wanted to turn back after that- I really didn't feel safe. But my mom- being the determined woman that she is- said that we shouldn't give up. So we didn't. After another hour and a half of driving- we finally found the relay. It turns out that the exit we needed was right after the LAX exit!!! Oh well- in situations like this I have to remind myself that everything happens for a reason. Though I'm not really sure what the reason was at this point. Maybe I'll have an epiphany. Heehee! Anyway, it was a great relay once we got there and I made a luminary for my teacher's aunt who just recently passed away from cancer. So far our count for fundraising is $3,582. Only a week to go!!

El Segundo Relay
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Wednesday, May 9, 2007

Staff Fundraiser


Well, I had another Relay fundraiser which went very well. We raised over $300 and we provided a luncheon for all of the staff and faculty of my high school. By doing this, we have raised an awareness among students and staff so that everyone can support the American Cancer Society. My relay team helped by delivering lunches to teachers and everyone thoroughly enjoyed the event. So far, we have raised $2,697 and I myself have raised $924. I hope that we reach our goal of $4,500!

Santa Barbara Relay

Last weekend I volunteered at the Santa Barbara Relay where it was an extreme honor to welcome all of the survivors and help them register for a great day of relaying! I shook every single hand and I told them congratulations on their fight against cancer. I think this event was the most moving and touching thus far. To hear my mom speak as a cancer survivor and see her walking the survivor's life was somehow life changing and it made me appreciate my life all the more. I think one of the things that I have gained most from these relays is a deeper appreciation for my mom and life in itself. I really love my platform more and more with each passing event and I feel blessed to be able to have so many opportunities to support such a great cause.

Santa Barbara Relay
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"I Never Sang for My Father"



Last weekend my mom and I volunteered at Santa Paula Theater as ushers. We filled program books and provided refreshments for all of the guests. It was a very "deep" show describing the relationship between a father and son called, "I Never Sang for my Father". It was especially intriguing because there was no set. This is what they call a black box because you have to use your imagination. I have to admit though- my favorite part was when the theater cat, Bailey, crawled up on stage and started meowing loudly during a dramatic scene- it was quite entertaining!

Tuesday, May 1, 2007

Agoura Relay

On the same day that I went to the Santa Paula relay, I also attended the Agoura relay. What began as simple fun turned into a ton of excitement! My mom and I went simply to show our support and check out the event. It was over 90 degrees and it was terribly hot! However, as my mom and I walked laps around the track, there were a few college students that recognized me due to my sash. They were filming a video based on the importance of the American Cancer Society and the positive effects that it has on the community. I believe that they were from UC Riverside. I was happy to show my support and they asked me questions such as why I relay and how I think it has a positive outcome for the community. What was even better was that my mom got to be interviewed as well. She was able to discuss her experience with cancer, and I find that I am always very moved by her story. Afterward, I was asked to speak on stage about what teens can do to prevent cancer and I also encouraged them to continue their work in fighting cancer. It was a great relay- one of the best so far-and I can't wait till the next one!












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